I feel horrible for even posting this but....?

I feel horrible for even posting this but.......I recently married a guy who loves me to death - he is the kindest and gentlest soul ever and is very family-oriented which I love. The only "problem" is that he's not the sharpest tool in the shed - if you know what I mean. He doesn't have a solid education under his belt; I am a bit of a "brainy" type and thrive on intellectual things, reading, etc..Plus, I get stuck with handling all the situations that require a take-charge attitude and some major thought. It's like we have reversed gender roles at times. I feel something is missing since we don't connect on that level and that turns me off. I don't feel I am "better" than him, but I like that stimulation you get from deep and thought-provoking conversations. Sometimes I feel more chummy-buddy than romantic. Whenever I come across a guy who is well-educated, articulates well.....and such, I sometimes wonder.........what am I really missing out on?...................